Showing posts with label balance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label balance. Show all posts

Thursday, February 26, 2015

Multitasking!!

Are you a multitasker? You know, able to do more than one thing at a time? I'm going to bet that if your a woman, not only did you say yes, but you are also proud of it! Am I right? I thought so. You know how I know this? That's right, I am a recovering multitasker too.

I'm going to give you a little food for thought and if it resonate's hold on to it, if not, let it fall away.

Multitasking is one of the great enemies of presence. To be present is to be in the here and now. Multitasking is about doing, not being. Think about it, how many times have you talked to someone who is looking right into your eyes and you can tell they are nowhere near you? How many times have you been that person?

The deal is, we need to stop it! How on earth are we to ever hear from God when we aren't really listening? When we sit there and inside our heads we are making lists of things that need done, doing laundry, living in the past, hoping in the future... Really? You think you can hear God speak through all that? 

So how do we go about being in the here and now? One way is to pay attention to your breath. Brenner says to attend to your breath, meaning to be fully present to your breath. To help you do this, get comfortable and when your ready, close your eyes. This cuts out visual distractions. Then, insert ear plugs or cover your ears. Now, notice your breath - don't try and change it, just attend to it as fully as you can. Be present to it. Listen to the sound it makes and feel the movement in your chest as you draw each breath in and then release it. When you notice thoughts or any other thing that takes your attention, simply return to being to your breath. Don't resist thoughts, but don't hold on to them either. I like to see it like I'm standing in a stream and thoughts are like boats that come towards me. I see them, and let them pass.


Now this isn't the easiest thing in the world to do. I end up paying too much attention to the color of the boats as they pass and sometimes I just climb on board and off I go. When that happens, I take a deep breath, and attend to my breath again. With practice it becomes easier, and the presence you slide into becomes deeper and fuller. 

You become settled. You become balanced, centered, calm. Then when God whisper's in your ear, you are able to hear, and be in His presence in the present moment.

It's really all we have, this present moment. The past is gone, and there is no promise of a future here on earth. So be in the here and now. Stop grading yourself on the stuff you get done and start trying to let the Father of all creation un-do you so you can be-come into the present.

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Content

Are you content? Or maybe the right question is what is contentment? How do you know when you reach it? So I look it up, you know me! When used as an adjective, content means satisfied with what one is or has; not wanting more or anything else. 


At first glance, this could be the face of contentment. The longer I look at this picture the more I begin to think about how uncontent this dog is. I mean, if you were to throw the ball just one more time.... 

I think it's strange that I can't make up my mind if we should be content or if we should not want to be content. I mean, doesn't that drive you and motivate you to do more? Wouldn't you get lazy if you became content? 

It's hard to find that balance. Maybe the only thing we should be content in is God. However, in being content we are not wanting more. 

I want more of God. 

Just some deep things I've been thinking on lately. How about you?